My husband and I are in a new season of life. We are both retired and have supportive roles in our extended family. My mother and brother are in declining health now and require the help of family. We are thrilled to have five of our grandchildren in the area and see them on a regular basis. We are learning new patterns of teamwork.
My husband makes the morning coffee. We have agreed on the recipe for the best coffee (see below). We each fix a light breakfast (mine is oatmeal) and read at the kitchen table. I am developing the habit of prayer and Bible study before I open my computer.
Sometimes I make trips to Michigan to assist in the care of my mother or brother while my husband takes care of the home front. Sometimes he comes with me. He always makes sure that the car is in good shape for travel.
We have different passions. He is an engineer, a problem solver and computer expert. He keeps my computer running and backed up. He enjoys being part of a ham radio group. I like to write, read, knit and support issues related to women’s health and childbirth.
My husband has attended one March for Life with me, but this year (2016) he did not want to go to downtown Chicago. When the thermometer showed a reading of 4° F, he said, “Surely you are not still planning to go?!”
And I said, “I will just go to the meet up place and then decide before I get on the bus.”
He said, “Take the ski goggles with you.”
My thought was I will look stupid. But I put the goggles in my purse and headed out the door. I did go to the March for Life. The wind chill at one point was -11°, possibly colder. We were outside for almost two hours and I was very grateful for the ski goggles.
We are enjoying being grandparents. When my daughter needs an evening babysitter, we go together and spend time with the grandchildren. I feel blessed to have this season with my husband.
During our wedding ceremony we committed to encourage each other. We read from Colossians 1: 9-14 during the ceremony.
And so from the day we heard, we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God. May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy, giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in light. He has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.
These verses are still a guide for us.
Here is our recipe for a great cup of coffee. We grind our own beans. While I will measure the coffee grounds (8 tablespoons for 11 cups of water), my husband puts the beans in the grinder and dumps all of the ground coffee in the filter paper lined basket. He is certain that he has placed the right amount of beans in the grinder. We add a dash of salt to take away the bitter edge of coffee and some cardamon seeds (a scant ¼ teaspoon).
After the coffee has brewed I add ¼ teaspoon of coconut oil and some cream to my coffee. So good!
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Update: January 2018 We now have 7 grandchildren. My brother (for whom I was guardian) has passed on to eternal life. There is both joy and sorrow in family, and much blessing.
It’s interesting and inspiring to see how you and your husband are using your differences to help each other.
We have been thru good times and difficult times together–with God’s guidance. So thankful for God’s faithfulness! Thanks for visiting, Lila.
It is good that you are able to see your grandchildren so often, and pour into their lives. I still remember so may things that my own grandmother taught me!
Blessings on your marriage and thanks for linking to Word of God Speak.
It is encouraging to see a Christian couple working together as it should be.
And we are definitely trying this coffee recipe out!!! Thank you for sharing it with us. 🙂
Haley, thanks for visiting. God has been faithful during the difficult times. All glory to God.
This an excellent post Carol. I loved witnessing your faith both in your individual devotion as well as with your husband. So many marriages have difficulties since they don’t seek God together. The both of you picked a great set of scripture to place God first and grow together spiritually. Your Christian testimony will help others. Thanks for sharing the way you trust God in all your affairs.
Walter, thank-you for visiting and for your kind comment. Have a blessed day!
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